In the past, when I was faced with a situation, I might act quickly on impulse. As I matured, I naturally took more time to assess the best course of action.  However, there were times that I wanted to act in such a way that might feel good or satisfy my pride.  But, it wouldn’t help the situation any. 

Asking myself this question has changed how I respond because it takes the focus off of me. It puts the focus on the other people and the situation. It reminds me that it’s not always about me. It definitely shows me there is a difference between what I want and what would ensure the very best outcome.  It has certainly diffused what could have been tense or nasty moments.

I encourage you to ask this question as well.  Give yourself a few seconds to reflect on how you could help in every interaction of your day.

Until next time – find a way to show as well as tell your child, “I love you.”

My best,

Tess Haranda

8^th grade language arts, CMS North

Creative Reading/Writing Studio

UIL Coach

Personal life, career, executive coach

www.successwithtess.com